Post by james81 on Apr 20, 2021 5:01:32 GMT
I am 39 and my husband is 30.
We have been married 6months.
Has anyone else been through a similar situation?
My husband has the most amazing personality, however he has demons in his head from being physically beaten up as a child by his parents for being gay.
During the course of our relationship he was physically abusive to me, he very aggressively would beat me up, including spitting in my face. I kept however forgiving him.
I have also realised that he during the course of us being together has been using dating apps to hook up with other men, he always denied it was him but some of my friends caught him out doing it. They even messaged him and my husband agreed to meet them.
Now I have learned that he was and always has been a male escort on these apps. Even during the last chance I gave him he said he was committed but in the background he was selling himself on line.
We cannot divorce until one year, he is presently sofa surfing round friends houses; they have no idea what he is like.
How do I handle this?? Both mentally and actually??
James
We have been married 6months.
Has anyone else been through a similar situation?
My husband has the most amazing personality, however he has demons in his head from being physically beaten up as a child by his parents for being gay.
During the course of our relationship he was physically abusive to me, he very aggressively would beat me up, including spitting in my face. I kept however forgiving him.
I have also realised that he during the course of us being together has been using dating apps to hook up with other men, he always denied it was him but some of my friends caught him out doing it. They even messaged him and my husband agreed to meet them.
Now I have learned that he was and always has been a male escort on these apps. Even during the last chance I gave him he said he was committed but in the background he was selling himself on line.
We cannot divorce until one year, he is presently sofa surfing round friends houses; they have no idea what he is like.
How do I handle this?? Both mentally and actually??
James
