Post by 90schild on Dec 8, 2022 9:27:52 GMT
Hello all firstly I hope you're all having a good morning so far its cold as brass out there.
This post is about finding out my sexuality and its taken a lot for myself to do this as I come from a background where this kind of thing was ingrained in me to be wrong & shameful, I was raised in an domestic violence household and I too took the brunt of it so please bare with me if I write anything stupid, graphic or if I cause offence to anyone by my terminology.
I'm in my 30s and I've been married now for 12 years to the most amazing woman I Could have ever dreamed of meeting, recently she has been a real support for myself in tackling my mental health I'm also going through something called Schemia therapy which is allowing me to open up more and address my own identity.
I believe myself to be Bi-Curious I've explored a lot with sexual pleasures and feel I like the idea of being sexual with another male, I've been able to look at men and say they're good looking and have imagined in that moment what it would be like to engage in sexual activity with them but equally I'm not romantically or emotionally drawn to them IE I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with another man.
For clarity I'm not looking to move on from my wife to be with another person nor would I be interested in doing so, its purely a sexual attraction as I've explore with toys in the bedroom & enjoy pegging too, but I've always wondered what the real thing would feel like and I'm not put off by this either.
So there's the basics of my situation at least I've found a lot of definitions for Bisexuality but nothing really concrete on Bi-Curious as the definitions I've found tend to say a number of different things which just leads to confusion, I'm not one for labels but I do feel like it helps to understand fully where I am in life.
My wife is fully supportive of myself exploring my sexuality and encourages me to be open with myself she's in the loop with everything going on which helps as I don't have to hide things from her.
I hope this all makes sense, just to add I'm a support worker in adult mental health and I've worked with people & supported people withing the LGBTQ community/umbrella so I'm not completely naieve to everything.
This post is about finding out my sexuality and its taken a lot for myself to do this as I come from a background where this kind of thing was ingrained in me to be wrong & shameful, I was raised in an domestic violence household and I too took the brunt of it so please bare with me if I write anything stupid, graphic or if I cause offence to anyone by my terminology.
I'm in my 30s and I've been married now for 12 years to the most amazing woman I Could have ever dreamed of meeting, recently she has been a real support for myself in tackling my mental health I'm also going through something called Schemia therapy which is allowing me to open up more and address my own identity.
I believe myself to be Bi-Curious I've explored a lot with sexual pleasures and feel I like the idea of being sexual with another male, I've been able to look at men and say they're good looking and have imagined in that moment what it would be like to engage in sexual activity with them but equally I'm not romantically or emotionally drawn to them IE I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with another man.
For clarity I'm not looking to move on from my wife to be with another person nor would I be interested in doing so, its purely a sexual attraction as I've explore with toys in the bedroom & enjoy pegging too, but I've always wondered what the real thing would feel like and I'm not put off by this either.
So there's the basics of my situation at least I've found a lot of definitions for Bisexuality but nothing really concrete on Bi-Curious as the definitions I've found tend to say a number of different things which just leads to confusion, I'm not one for labels but I do feel like it helps to understand fully where I am in life.
My wife is fully supportive of myself exploring my sexuality and encourages me to be open with myself she's in the loop with everything going on which helps as I don't have to hide things from her.
I hope this all makes sense, just to add I'm a support worker in adult mental health and I've worked with people & supported people withing the LGBTQ community/umbrella so I'm not completely naieve to everything.
