Post by weaponx on Mar 9, 2024 18:38:52 GMT
So, to set the scene. I’m bi and my wife and I have an open relationship.
I’m a 40 year old 6ft 5” chap.
Nothing really phases me. I have a been in a relationship with a crossdreser for about 3 years. She’s actually one of the top earners in the Uk on xhamster for our content together. So I’m quite a liberal guy. Until 3 years ago, I would have said I was straight. Now…. I’m not sure.
Anyway, I hooked up with a femboy last week. Had a great time. But they messaged me afterwards to say they wanted to apologise as they were actually female. I’m into femme, so I wasn’t fussed. But should that not have been said upfront?
Then yesterday I hooked up with another femboy. Had another great time. Got a message this morning, to tell me they want to apologise. This time… they said they identify as female.
This kind of thing confuses the life out of me. Was this two straight encounters? A straight and gay encounter? Two gay encounters?
I’m not judging, but is it not etiquette to tell a partner this kind of thing upfront?
I’m also acutely aware this story appears fabricated. But it’s not. I’m going to meet both again. But I do feel I was somewhat duped. As I was after something and ultimately I was deceived.
I’m a 40 year old 6ft 5” chap.
Nothing really phases me. I have a been in a relationship with a crossdreser for about 3 years. She’s actually one of the top earners in the Uk on xhamster for our content together. So I’m quite a liberal guy. Until 3 years ago, I would have said I was straight. Now…. I’m not sure.
Anyway, I hooked up with a femboy last week. Had a great time. But they messaged me afterwards to say they wanted to apologise as they were actually female. I’m into femme, so I wasn’t fussed. But should that not have been said upfront?
Then yesterday I hooked up with another femboy. Had another great time. Got a message this morning, to tell me they want to apologise. This time… they said they identify as female.
This kind of thing confuses the life out of me. Was this two straight encounters? A straight and gay encounter? Two gay encounters?
I’m not judging, but is it not etiquette to tell a partner this kind of thing upfront?
I’m also acutely aware this story appears fabricated. But it’s not. I’m going to meet both again. But I do feel I was somewhat duped. As I was after something and ultimately I was deceived.
