Hi from an oldie newbie!
Apr 18, 2024 15:53:00 GMT
Post by deesometimes on Apr 18, 2024 15:53:00 GMT
Hi, I’m Deesometimes, but you can call me Dee. I’m 67 and trans, but not fully out - not socially transitioned, in other words. I was first diagnosed as trans over 35 years ago when I came out and started transitioning, then lost my courage when my family rejected me. 10 years ago I had my natural hormone levels tested and discovered my testosterone levels were closer to female than male (9.6, for those in the know). This explained quite a few questions! Since then I’ve been on a tiny dose of female hormones (1mg daily of Sandrena gel, again for those in the know). A professional bra-fitter thought I’d had implants, I’m very happy with my boobs!
I’m married to a very open and supportive wife, so not looking for relationships, but I am looking for friends, especially anyone who can understand how a m2f trans person can be very lesbian oriented. Much of my sex-life has been … difficult … and often not very satisfactory. I’ve been told I only cross-dressed because I wanted to get into lesbians’ knickers … well, yes, but the problems started when lesbians wanted to get into my knickers! In the past I’ve had some good lesbian friends but now have none. My wife identifies as bi but hasn’t had any experience beyond kissing, and we have a couple of bi female friends. I’ve carried a hell of a lot of guilt over my sexuality and I’d love some friends who just ‘get it’.
And maybe I’m re-evaluating my life having been facing cancer for the last couple months. I want to say to any LGBT+ person who carries doubts or guilt - just be who you truly are and don’t waste your time on this earth!
I’m married to a very open and supportive wife, so not looking for relationships, but I am looking for friends, especially anyone who can understand how a m2f trans person can be very lesbian oriented. Much of my sex-life has been … difficult … and often not very satisfactory. I’ve been told I only cross-dressed because I wanted to get into lesbians’ knickers … well, yes, but the problems started when lesbians wanted to get into my knickers! In the past I’ve had some good lesbian friends but now have none. My wife identifies as bi but hasn’t had any experience beyond kissing, and we have a couple of bi female friends. I’ve carried a hell of a lot of guilt over my sexuality and I’d love some friends who just ‘get it’.
And maybe I’m re-evaluating my life having been facing cancer for the last couple months. I want to say to any LGBT+ person who carries doubts or guilt - just be who you truly are and don’t waste your time on this earth!
