Post by carrie on May 19, 2024 20:26:44 GMT
Hi all
I’m in my early 40s and have decided that I’d like to explore my sexuality and want to start dating women. I’ve only recently realised that I think I am a lesbian, everything is starting to add up and it’s very liberating but a bit daunting at the same time!
In my early childhood I was a tom boy and from early puberty was attracted to the pictures of women in the shopping catalogue and also remember feeling sexual thoughts when having a sleepover at a friends house. I always got on well with boys as mates, but when the expectation of sleeping with a guy had to be faced, I would always have to get drunk to sleep with a man. This happened throughout my adult life and I always ended it with guys as I just don’t have those sort of sexual feelings towards guys, my libido just wasn’t there and I always went back to fantasising about women.
I am on a gay dating site and know what my type of woman is and I can see what sort of a lesbian I am (I believe I’d call myself ‘stem’).
How do I go about meeting people and acting ‘gay’?? It’s all very new to me!
I’m in my early 40s and have decided that I’d like to explore my sexuality and want to start dating women. I’ve only recently realised that I think I am a lesbian, everything is starting to add up and it’s very liberating but a bit daunting at the same time!
In my early childhood I was a tom boy and from early puberty was attracted to the pictures of women in the shopping catalogue and also remember feeling sexual thoughts when having a sleepover at a friends house. I always got on well with boys as mates, but when the expectation of sleeping with a guy had to be faced, I would always have to get drunk to sleep with a man. This happened throughout my adult life and I always ended it with guys as I just don’t have those sort of sexual feelings towards guys, my libido just wasn’t there and I always went back to fantasising about women.
I am on a gay dating site and know what my type of woman is and I can see what sort of a lesbian I am (I believe I’d call myself ‘stem’).
How do I go about meeting people and acting ‘gay’?? It’s all very new to me!
