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Post by forlong on Jun 5, 2024 0:54:43 GMT
Hello new here, came out to my husband a year ago as bisexual. I have known since I was 12 that I liked both sexes and denied it until I was in my late twenties. I can say coming out to my spouse did bring us closer but it also made him insecure about our marriage.
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Post by Saathi on Jun 5, 2024 11:48:48 GMT
Hey there and thanks for your post. Hope you enjoy the LGBT HERO Forums. It sounds like you are having open communication with your husband which is healthy. Looks like they may still be processing some stuff. Often reassuring people about the strengths of a relationship or having a regular check-in with each other can help. I guess it might be worth asking, when it feels like the right time to do so, what he may be feeling insecure about. Often there can be fear of the relationship changing or evolving. Have you both considered talking your feelings through in a safe space, such as with a relationship counsellor? It's also good to read that your relationship is much closer since you came out. I remember telling my partner that I am romantically attracted to all genders. We are in a same sex relationship and identify as gay men. He found this difficult to understand at first but we created space for each other to talk through this and it strengthened our relationship. Not sure if this link helps? >> www.lgbthero.org.uk/fs164-open-relationships-do-rules-really-matterBest wishes and do stay in touch
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