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Post by weaponx on Aug 24, 2024 23:28:27 GMT
So, I’ve been actively Bi (I will clarify I swear!!) for about a year. I’m married to a woman in an open relationship and have been also seeing a trans woman for 4 years.
She’s a woman when I’m with her, but when not she’s a regular man. It’s confusing I know. But it’s about energy and femininity. Genitals is of no importance. I have had people say I’m Just having sex with a drag queen or the likes. But it’s not like that when we are together. Labels are genuinely not important. It’s a synergy we have with each other. It’s different than being with my wife.
But I’m now also seeing guys who refer to themselves as twinks and femboys. This part is new to me as it’s a clearly defined man I’m having sex with. I’m only into a certain look. I’m Not attracted to men. If that. Alas any sense!
As said, I am in an open relationship. But now with guys. Guys much younger than me. Like early 20s to early 30’s. I’m Not sure how to tell people I know. Part of me says it’s private. But I feel my wife should know. And if she knows, it’s out there.
Any advice?
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naomifaith
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I would like real life friendships with other tvs in London UK, not with male admirers.
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Post by naomifaith on Aug 26, 2024 18:01:47 GMT
biprideuk.org/ on Sat 31 Aug London W5 5RF or online perhaps someone there will have advice
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Post by Saathi on Aug 27, 2024 10:11:53 GMT
Hi and thanks for your post 'weaponx' - sounds like you are going through a journey of discovery and sexual awakening - which for most people can be an exciting but confusing time. It's good you are reaching out on here. You are in an open relationship - so I guess sometimes people set boundaries and have open channels to communicate feelings. Sometimes checking in on each other in a relationships can help - whether this is monthly or weekly?. Also, sometimes talking to someone in confidence in how you are feeling can help too (Gay Switchboard, a counsellor etc). I guess you need to ask yourself what small steps forwards work for you. This link may be useful: www.lgbthero.org.uk/busting-bisexuality-mythsThere is also never no rush or need to tell people unless you feel ready to do so, and feel safe to do. www.lgbthero.org.uk/fs164-open-relationships-do-rules-really-matterStay in touch and best wishes
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