Coming out was not easy at first

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It sounds like you've been on quite a journey, and it took a lot of courage to come out, especially after going through a major life change like your divorce.

I can really listen to how hard it must have been at first, especially with the fear of how your loved ones might react. Coming out is never easy, but doing so after building an entire life with a different identity must have felt overwhelming. You took a brave step, not only for yourself but also for your family.

It’s amazing to hear that your parents, sister, and sons were so accepting. I can acknowledge that feeling seen and accepted by those closest to you can make such a difference. The way your family hugged you, embraced your truth, and even used your name, Tracy Jo, shows a lot of love and understanding.

Your story reminded me of someone I know who also came out later in life. They too struggled with how to tell their family and feared rejection, especially from their kids. But, like in your experience, their children accepted them wholeheartedly, which ended up strengthening their bond even more. They also found that being open and honest brought them closer to their true self, just like it did for you. It wasn’t always easy and there were moments of doubt, but seeing how their family adjusted over time gave them so much peace.

I’d say it’s clear you’ve built a lot of strength from this experience, and it’s heartwarming that your family has embraced you as both the person they’ve always known and as Tracy Jo. You’ve shown that authenticity, even when it feels risky, can bring deeper connections. You’re living proof that being yourself doesn’t mean losing the love of those closest to you. It can actually deepen those relationships.

It’s truly inspiring to hear how you’ve built a new chapter in your life with your family by your side, embracing who you are. How has your journey as Tracy Jo evolved over the years? Have there been any new challenges or experiences that have shaped your path? Stay strong, Tracy Jo!