How do I know if I'm trans

Hi Hideitall2020,

I identify as gay man and can't say I am the best person to reply to your request.  Hopefully someone who has trans experience will chip in.  

My thoughts on your situation is that it would be good for you to make contact anonymously with someone about this first of all and I would always recommend folk ring the Switchboard 0300 330 0630 as a first port of call.  You can say exactly what is on your mind and why.  They are a lovely bunch of volunteers with a lot of experience and lists of resources of all kinds. They will be able to supply you with numbers and website addresses that are appropriate to your needs.  During the pandemic, they are all working from home and actually more available than at normal times, so you should get to speak to someone pretty quickly.

The service is free, and confidential.  I have used it since 1974!  Sometimes I have just been lonely and wanted a chat.

Forgive me if you have already done this, but there are various threads on this site where people have expressed similar situations.  You may find something on them that resonates with you and is helpful.  It is great you have reached out.

I wish you well.  Simon.