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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2020 22:24:47 GMT
hey all now to put u all in the loop i have recently come out to myself as gay however i am currently married to a woman and we have a child, i love my wife to bits but i am no longer sexually attracted to her or any other woman infact. very confused on what should my next step be as i can imagine will be very upsetting and hard for her
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Post by debbiedowner99 on Jun 13, 2020 2:12:35 GMT
Hi Kyke1927, first congrats on coming out to yourself. I know from experience that's the biggest thing to do. So no matter what happens after this point this is the biggest thing you can do.
Am, it might sound like a silly question but what would you like to happen? Do you want to come out and remain married? Do you want to split from your wife? Have you thought about the next steps at all?
I ask because I was there where I rushed before I was understood what I wanted. I think you have made a big step forward but that might be OK for now until you understand what you want. Am I making sense?
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Post by mikeh on Jun 13, 2020 2:16:26 GMT
Man, I totally understand. How are you feeling after coming out to yourself?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 13, 2020 22:13:22 GMT
Hi Kyke1927, first congrats on coming out to yourself. I know from experience that's the biggest thing to do. So no matter what happens after this point this is the biggest thing you can do. Am, it might sound like a silly question but what would you like to happen? Do you want to come out and remain married? Do you want to split from your wife? Have you thought about the next steps at all? I ask because I was there where I rushed before I was understood what I wanted. I think you have made a big step forward but that might be OK for now until you understand what you want. Am I making sense? thanks Debbie what i would like to happen is that i tell her and she would be understanding and we part way lol. but i really doubt that life would deal me such a great hand, a part of me doesn't want to split with her because I do love her i just dont think its fair for both of us to remain together |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 13, 2020 22:14:30 GMT
Man, I totally understand. How are you feeling after coming out to yourself? now that i have i do feel a lot happier in myself |
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