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Post by steve on Aug 19, 2020 17:28:02 GMT
Hi i had a 3 some with a man and woman as a straight man i enjoyed the sex better with the man
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Post by simonjr on Aug 20, 2020 9:25:59 GMT
Hi Steve, Welcome to the OutLife Forums.
Just wondering, was your experience a surprise to you or are you just stating a fact that you enjoyed sex with the man best?
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Post by bubus on Apr 6, 2021 12:19:12 GMT
LOL!! I loved this.
Not only you fulfilled my dream of finding people to have a good threesome with, but you must have gone with it without restraint.
I have nothing to say but the fact that I'd love that.
And that the man maybe was better at it than her, not because he is a man, but just because he was being more honest/free. It is worth remembering that a girl in a 2-males threesome is always in a weakened position and if the guys don't respect that she is not going to give and feel her best.
This is for biological factors that don't depend on her personality alone: first, she needs to trust that you both are not going to hurt her, because on an subconscious level she knows you could kill her and that can already be something to take care of. On a subconscious level, you are probably free from this extra burden because you are not being vulnerable with two dudes twice as strong as you. All free energies to play instead. Second, a girl's biology makes it so that we get aroused slower than men. We don't get there in the zone in three seconds, it's like a wave that you have to ride for a while longer. We still experience the same, but you have to take care that everyone in a 3some is on the same page, and not just looking like they are. It would be like for you getting down with 2 fully dressed people...quite disappointing right? In the same way, women need to get there and not be rushed or be assumed to be turned on just enough. It is not personality, it is hormones and body parts functioning.
In conclusion... well done for living the dream. I hope the guy was just better and I'm glad you enjoyed him. The worst case scenario would be that she actually wasn't enjoying it at all, but I hope it is not the case.
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Laurette
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Femme lesbian, out and proud!
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Post by Laurette on Apr 15, 2022 18:57:48 GMT
"threesome" was my first LGBT experience. I befriended two bisexual men, we got to know each other pretty well, and one of them made the suggestion that we get together for an evening. Which I took them up on it. I wasn't sure what to expect, but once I was at their place (I still had two teenaged children that dropped by frequently), they made me feel very comfortable. I quickly figured out that for an FFM to work properly, both men must be bisexual, so they'd be comfortable around each other in the nude. The idea of having an occasional female plaything thrilled them immensely. This would become something which we did on a monthly basis. I knew that there was no future in the relationship, which I didn't expect. Not only was it no-strings attached intercourse, but because there was twice as much of it for me, it was extremely satisfying. Eventually, they taught me anal. So we would rotate; one meeting, we'd do double-penetration, and the other, we'd do train. Double-penetration was extremely satisfying, but train was much more empowering; I'd wear one out to where he could no longer keep his erection, then the second would jump right in and continue the action. Less than a week after one meeting, expecting another one the following month, I got an inviation for the following weekend; two of their bisexual buddies were coming over to spend the weekend. I wound up pulling all four of them. This was one of the most empowering things I ever did. What made it better, two were ready for seconds that same evening, and the next morning, all four were ready. This time, I insisted not on train or double, but triple. The guy I was giving oral to came first, so he and the fourth one swapped. I went home later that morning, feeling a bit sore, but so super-satisfied! My relationship with these two men would be my last intercourse with a man. They disappeared one day, without notice, and without saying good-bye. I felt betrayed! But I got over it. Several years later was my coming-out as a lesbian. I briefly thought how much fun an FFF would be. But I didn't dwell on it long, my partner and I are way too devout to each other for that.
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