Who am I

Hi Moose.

Welcome to the forums. Sorry it's taken a bit of time to get back to you.

Do you know what, we've heard many people talk about your situation over and over again. It sounds like you grew up in an era where there simply wasn't an opportunity to explore yourself. Lots of people start off thinking they are one thing and then through life experiences find out they are something else. So right now, trying to find that label - which I know is important - maybe isn't 100% helpful. Normally I'd tell you to go out and explore your identify but in this world it's a bit difficult. So maybe try and explore some online social groups. I know ELOP have some great ones going and they are set up for people like you. Here's a link to their website >> www.elop.org. We know lots of people use their support groups to help find their identity.

In the meantime maybe read this from us | www.lgbthero.org.uk/a-z-of-sexual-orientation | It might help in some way.

Hopefully someone reading this might be able to jump in and give their life experience that might also help.

Let me know if that helped or if there's anything else we can support you with.

Rasher