hieu
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Post by hieu on May 19, 2021 17:23:27 GMT
Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months, and only when I found out he had several one-night-stand did he commit he's into an open relationship. However, he said he still loved me and did not want to loose me. Right now, I'm really hurt and stuck in a bundle thoughts. I was cheated by the one who I could have trusted. I don't know what to do for this upcoming time. Has anyone ever been to this kind of situation before please help me out. I would very much appreciate it.
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Post by liammurphy on May 20, 2021 12:13:56 GMT
Hi Hieu, Thank you for posting on the Forums. I'm sorry you are going through a difficult time with your boyfriend. Communication is important right now. Tell him how he's hurt you and talk about how he has betrayed your trust. Only by talking about it can you work through it, if that's what you decide to do. When it comes to open relationships, that's something you have to also discuss with each other. You have to set the rules and boundaries within your relationship. But don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If open relationships aren't for you, then your boyfriend has to respect that. Try reading our guide to open relationships: www.lgbthero.org.uk/fs150-8-ways-to-make-an-open-relationship-workIt might help you make an informed decision going forward. Hopefully someone else on the Forums who has been through something similar can offer you further help and advice. If you need any more help, advice or just want to talk, please post again any time you need to. Liam - LGBT HERO
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hieu
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Post by hieu on May 23, 2021 7:10:13 GMT
Hi Liam, Thank you so much for your advice. I did talk to him and it was terribly stressed, but now I am pretty relieved. I don't know what is gonna happen but I believe I tried my best and it seems that I am really free of mind now. Again, thanks a lot.
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