A drunken confession
Jun 14, 2021 20:26:02 GMT
Post by Nezumi on Jun 14, 2021 20:26:02 GMT
Hello
(Just for some background i’m 17 and non-binary afab (not that anyone from my class knows this) and the girl im talking about is bi)
So a couple days ago some stuff went down, and I thought I could just move on or at least not care, but it has been eating away at me ever since and I REALLY need some advice or just a chance to get it off my chest.
As it, rather unsurprisingly, must start.. there is this girl I like. Like really REALLY like, and have for a while, with my feelings only growing stronger lately. I literally can't stop thinking of her and even as I'm writing this, my heart aches knowing she is not by my side. (my god that sounds so sappy im sorry lol)
Anyway to get to the point, i went to a party with my classmates about 3 days ago, where said girl also attended. (yes, she is the reason i went). The night progressed and everyone, including myself, got a little passed tipsy. Me, the girl, and about 4 other people were talking, when the others thought it would be a wonderful idea to let the girl that i like and one of the dudes get to know eachother better alone, saying stuff like how it was about time the dude got something started with someone.
Believe it or not this is not the first time something like this has happened, and both the other times, I took a deep breath and went on my way knowing I was no match against a straight couple. I initially did the same this time HOWEVER this wasn't the same as the times before. SHE was not like the times before.
My heart was absolutely shattered and I was straight up heartbroken, even though we weren't even in a relationship. However in my drunken daze, my feelings quickly turned into a form of determinedness unlike I had ever experienced before.
As you might have guessed I was NOT ready to give up on the girl that had me falling so damn hard.
So i took my, at this point eggnormous willpower, and started spewing shit, like how was willing to fight for her (which honestly is true), how i was better for her than him (i won't lie this one is also kind of true, since that dude has been known to be a bit of an ass at times, even though in general he's not the worst). I also pushed myself in between them and told the dude to, and I quote, “stay away from my girl” (keep in mind they don’t know for sure that i am into girls but its not like i hide it and most people figure it out pretty fast).
It continued like that for most of the evening, however the classmates i mentioned before (the ones who tried to set the dude up with the girl i like) kept on trying to get me away from the girl in order to give the other dude a chance, but i was so focused that i couldn't, no, didn't care, about anything that wasn’t related to the girl i like. Although in the process I said some rude stuff to them and kept telling them to stay out of it.
Not much more happened, and I ended up going home before the others, because the last bus was about to leave and I had no other way to get home.
The next morning I woke up and my god… what have I done…
Not only did I basically confess my love to the girl that has me head over heels, but I managed to piss most of my classmates off by getting in the way of her and the other dude.
I was left with disgust over my actions and a handful of regrets HOWEVER there was one part that i just couldn't shake. I had actually, and for the first time, told the girl I liked that I liked them.. Something that i very much do NOT regret
The day after, I wrote a message to the girl, expressing how I was sorry for my behavior and how I hope I didn't make her uncomfortable. I then said that even though I meant everything I said, it wasn't exactly my best performance. (notice how this is me soberly admitting that i like her)
I got a reply stating that she was in no way uncomfortable, which was a huge relief. However in reference to me liking her, she said that she felt honored.. and left it at that.
So here I am..
I have since the message gone back to talking like we used to without any awkwardness, however my feelings are still there and my god they still grow stronger.
I feel like a total mess and even though I didn't get rejected, I'm scared my feelings won't be taken seriously.
Phew that turned out way longer than expected, but it felt good to share this.
Thank you for reading if you made it this far
- Nezumi