Post by mixedlesbian98 on Jun 21, 2021 20:34:07 GMT
So basically this started last year when she cheated on me with 2 guys, she said she was confused on her sexuality so we broke up. We were broke.l up for 2 months and she came back after discovering I was seeing other people meanwhile she was seeing a guy. (Baring in mind when we got together she assured me she was a lesbian and always shrugged off any idea of her being bi until she cheated!).
Anyways after we got back together we have been great apart from the sex, she never wants sex and never seems to be horny. Today when needed up going for a drink and talking about everything in general until we talked about sex, she basically said she would like it if I wore the strap to bed because this turns her one when we are cuddling. I already struggle with my gender identity and her cheating and this was another kick to me. I asked if maybe she should be with a boy and she said no, she said multiple times that she loves me and sees a future with me and she thought she should finally open up about stuff, which I’ve always encouraged her to do because when she cheated and questioned everything. she never spoke about her confusion and issues.
I’m glad she says she loves me and is attracted to me and wants a life with me but it also just makes me feel like I’m not enough, like you should naturally get horny and want to have sex with your girlfriend and it’s the fact that Its something I can’t change at the moment. So now I don’t know what to do, I’m happy to try that for her but if she’s gonna need that every time to get horny then just makes me feel like she wants me to be a guy when she should naturally want to sleep with me if she does love me and find me attractive. It hit me really hard and everyone I know is straight and don’t understand. Please help 🥺
Anyways after we got back together we have been great apart from the sex, she never wants sex and never seems to be horny. Today when needed up going for a drink and talking about everything in general until we talked about sex, she basically said she would like it if I wore the strap to bed because this turns her one when we are cuddling. I already struggle with my gender identity and her cheating and this was another kick to me. I asked if maybe she should be with a boy and she said no, she said multiple times that she loves me and sees a future with me and she thought she should finally open up about stuff, which I’ve always encouraged her to do because when she cheated and questioned everything. she never spoke about her confusion and issues.
I’m glad she says she loves me and is attracted to me and wants a life with me but it also just makes me feel like I’m not enough, like you should naturally get horny and want to have sex with your girlfriend and it’s the fact that Its something I can’t change at the moment. So now I don’t know what to do, I’m happy to try that for her but if she’s gonna need that every time to get horny then just makes me feel like she wants me to be a guy when she should naturally want to sleep with me if she does love me and find me attractive. It hit me really hard and everyone I know is straight and don’t understand. Please help 🥺
