Willow ♡
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love is love ❤️
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Post by Willow ♡ on Jun 23, 2021 20:30:12 GMT
How did you find out your sexuality?
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Post by Piltover on Jun 24, 2021 12:17:15 GMT
Hi there again anonymouse, Hope you're doing well. I think the answer to this question is going to be different for everyone! Discovering one's sexuality is very unique to the individual, though lots of people may begin experiencing sexual feelings, and processing them during puberty, some people come to understand their sexuality much later. Personally, I remember having feelings for a friend of mine when I was at the beginning of secondary school (was probably about 12) but I only came to identify as gay a couple of years later as I didn't really have the words to explain how I was feeling, and didn't know that gay was even an identity. But by 16 I was an out and proud gay man. If you're questioning your sexuality it can help to talk to someone else who is LGBTQ+, have you tried calling Switchboard? It's the oldest LGBTQ+ helpline in the country and staffed by queer volunteers. You call them 10am - 10pm on 0300 330 0630, or catch them via webchat at switchboard.lgbt/, or email at chris@switchboard.lgbt J |
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bigbadbazza
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I'm a 60 y/o xxy, non-binary bi Cross dresser & in need of some loving
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Post by bigbadbazza on Jul 12, 2021 18:11:58 GMT
Hi there again anonymouse, Hope you're doing well. I think the answer to this question is going to be different for everyone! Discovering one's sexuality is very unique to the individual, though lots of people may begin experiencing sexual feelings, and processing them during puberty, some people come to understand their sexuality much later. Personally, I remember having feelings for a friend of mine when I was at the beginning of secondary school (was probably about 12) but I only came to identify as gay a couple of years later as I didn't really have the words to explain how I was feeling, and didn't know that gay was even an identity. But by 16 I was an out and proud gay man. If you're questioning your sexuality it can help to talk to someone else who is LGBTQ+, have you tried calling Switchboard? It's the oldest LGBTQ+ helpline in the country and staffed by queer volunteers. You call them 10am - 10pm on 0300 330 0630, or catch them via webchat at switchboard.lgbt/, or email at chris@switchboard.lgbt J Are now you state "puberty" age 12/13 and well into my 30s I had no sexual interest in anyone, I put that down to a lack of testosterone running through my vans thing is I didn't find out till I was 38 that I had klinefelter's syndrome 47xxy en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klinefelter_syndrome of course after taking testosterone HRT I soon became very aroused yet I was also experiencing other issues (gender dysphagia and my cross dressing habits got rather out of hand) See when most people talk about puberty witch roughly starts around age 12 and lasts to roughly until age 21 in a fairly moderate way, but not me a slow build up from the start of taking testosterone HRT but in year three was a very difficult time emotionally for me yes women kind of did it for me and I won't deny in the matter of 6 months I had many different partners and believe me i learnt a lot in 6 months but over the years sins I have found less interest in females sexualy and I've slowly found myself desiring to be with males in a sexual manner and I fantasies quite frequently along those lines as to holding the hands of the unemployed my little pet name for my penis very rarely as it seems to do nothing for me but the thought of being with a guy me performing a BJ o i get off on that then there's the intercourse I'm a taker not a giver well that's how I feel about it, I have been with one guy but he was unable to perform when it came to intercourse witch was a big disappointment because how can I judge if that's what I truly want if I dote perform yes I play with dildo's but I'm in agreements with what most women say "its not the real thing" and over the last couple of years I've felt the desire of another man's hands upon my body even kissing each other, so in a sens im still going through puberty, I'm not saying I'm no longer attacked to women although I kind of see them as more in a body image sense ie cross dressing and gender dysphagia, I have long thought that maybe my desire to be with another guy sexualy is just my effeminate side of me fulling its sexual desires ever way no amount of taking will ever resolve it or why I feel what I do I just know in my heart that I have to participate to fully understand if there's for me. |
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