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Post by ashbee on Jun 26, 2021 5:17:14 GMT
i've never had the time to think considering i was labeled bisexual as soon as the gay community was kinda there but no one ever acknowledged it. i labeled myself as bisexual since i've never heard of a transgender when i was in the 7th grade. it wasn't until recently that i thought about it. like, i love the thought of dating a woman or a man but then i was questioned; would i date a woman/man that was born with a different gender? my answer would be, yes. yes i would. without hesitation, i would date someone that was born of a different gender. it didn't matter if they had surgery to attach their counterparts to be more into the part of their transformation. if a woman had their male genital it wouldn't matter to me. if a man had their boobs and their birth genital then i wouldn't matter. but now that i'm searching everything up, some things don't make sense, i just wanna know so i don't look stupid when people ask me the same questions and correct me. it gets exhausting when i get questioned numerous times and fighting into thinking i wa sbisexual when i was actually pansexual since i heard a brief summary that its someone loves their lover no matter their gender but there were things that people added and i'm not really updated into the LGBTQ community. if someone see's this then please help a fellow sister out please.
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Post by kirhymeswithpie on Jun 29, 2021 10:13:25 GMT
There are many lables in the bi/pan spectrum. Some people choose them for political reasons, some because one resonates more with them than another. The label bisexual just means attraction one genders same as self, and genders different from self. To break it down, some bisexual people describe as attractions to different genders feeling different. So there is attraction, but the attraction is different depending on the gender of the person one is attracted to. Pansexuals describe their attraction as being regardless of gender. Omnisexuals may be attracted to more than one gender, but perhaps there is also a gender/genders they aren't attracted to. There are many labels, and it is really up to you which you choose. Bisexual and m-spec are both umbrella terms and the meanings and reasons people choose their label are very variable. lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Category:M-Spec for more information. It is also okay to answer "i'm still figuring it out" when people ask. You don't owe anyone an explanation, and since sexuality is fluid, there is no shame in changing labels throughout your life either. Just be you and live your best life HOpe this helps!
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Post by Willow ♡ on Jul 1, 2021 23:43:32 GMT
You don’t need a label! If someone asks, you can just say “queer” or “bi curious”. Those are easier and broader. But say you wanted a more specific label, I can’t say your sexuality. If you don’t give a crap about gender, then I think you are pan. It’s your call, though!
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