Questioning my sexuality

Hi there flimsychalk,

Thanks for your post to the forums, and welcome!

It sounds like you've got a lot of anxious thoughts running around at the moment. I think firstly it's important to remember that whatever your sexuality is, everything is going to be fine. UAs you acknowledge in your own message, it's impossible for me to identify for you whether you're gay or straight, that's something that only you will be able to come to a conclusion about, but don't feel like you have to rush anything; people's journey of self discovery with their sexuality cam take a while, and what you don't need is to put even more pressure on yourself.

What I can say, is that it might help to talk to someone to discuss your thoughts and feelings. It can be really useful when we're trying to process thoughts about our own identity to have a place where we can speak non-judgementally to someone else.

I'd try ringing Switchboard, the LGBTQ+ helpline. It's run by queer volunteers and talking to someone on the phone there might help you move forward, or they can put you in touch with an appropriate support service. You can get them on 0300 330 0630, or via webchat at switchboard.lgbt/, or via email at chris@switchboard.lgbt.

I hope that some of the above helps and that you find it useful. If you want any more suggestions or information, or just want to let us know how you're getting along, the please do let us know.

Best,
Justin