Is there a name for my sexuality?

Hi there Martin,

Thanks for posting to the forums. Sexuality and romantic orientation is really complicated and is unique to each individual. Labels and categorisations are useful for our sense of identity, but they don't define us, and there won't always be a solid fit for each person. I personally don't know of a term that describes your particular experience of sexual attraction and romantic feelings, but doesn't mean they're in any way invalid, or that you're alone in experiencing relationships that way. There are absolutely going to be other people out there who experience this the same way you do.

It's great to hear that you have a loving partner and you're both happy with your relationship, and that matters a great deal. Sounds like you've got a great thing going on.

I hope you found some of this helpful even I couldn't provide the answer you were initially looking for. We're always here if you have more questions or are looking for other places you can get support.

J