Non binary

Hi there Alex,

Thanks for your post on our forums.

If you're questioning your gender identity then the best thing to do is speak to a registered charity or organisation for trans / gender nonconforming people. You don't mention how you're feeling right now, or what your thoughts are like right now, but whatever you're thinking there are people out there who will listen and help you understand what you're going through better.

I'm going to make some recommendations for resources and helplines below:

The Proud Trust has a great fact sheet for people who are questioning their gender identity here: www.theproudtrust.org/trusted-adults/lgbt-identities/gender-identity-t/ it answers some basic questions talks you through what gender identity and gender expression are.

The gender identity section of the LGBT HERO website also has a few fact sheets that are worth reading: www.lgbthero.org.uk/Pages/Category/gender-identity

Mermaids is a charity for gender nonconforming people and their families. It runs a helpline you can call on 0808 801 0400, Monday – Friday; 9am – 9pm.

You can also call Switchboard, the LGBTQ+ helpline on 0300 330 0630, 10am - 10pm.

I hope some of the above is helpful. Please do post again and let us know how you're getting along.

Justin