what is the title of this gender?

Hi there,

Thanks for your post and welcome to the forums.

Sounds like you're looking for a term that you feel best fits your gender identity. We get quite a lot of questions from people asking which term or label fits their GI or sexuality the best, you're far from alone in your search for what feels right in describing you personally.

While I can't know your exact experience of your gender, from what you've said it sounds like the term "genderfluid" might describe you best. Here's a description of what being genderfluid means from our own page on being non-binary: www.lgbthero.org.uk/being-non-binary

"Genderfluid is moving between two or more gender identities at different times, in different circumstances, etc."

It's perfectly normal for people to come to question their gender identity and even if you don't find a term that fits you exactly, try not to worry about that too much for now, this may come with time. Focusing on your wellbeing and understanding yourself is a great way to get there.


I'd also advise talking to someone about your gender identity, as you might find talking to another LGBTQ+ person helps you process your feelings. I'm linking to a few numbers below:

Switchboard is the country's longest running LGBTQ+ helpline where someone will be more than happy to chat to you about your gender identity. You can call them on 0300 330 0630, 10am - 10pm, or webchat at switchboard.lgbt/, or email chris@switchboard.lgbt.

You can also call the LGBT Foundation on 0345 330 3030.

I hope that you find some of the above helpful. If you have any more questions or want more ideas for places you can seek support then please don't hesitate to message again.

Best,
Justin