Losing our pets

brummie16
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Losing our pets Nov 8, 2021 22:40:23 GMT via mobile

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Post by brummie16 on Nov 8, 2021 22:40:23 GMT

On the 2nd November my dog pebbles passed away after getting an infection in her uterus as she wasn’t spayed , right now my world has been turned upside down and I cry constantly as she was the love of my life, pets love us unconditionally and we love them as we love our children and the grief you feel and the pain is unmeasurable. You feel like your losing your mind but you can’t tell anyone other wise they make you feel like your losing it .
I can be out shopping to try and so normal things and at the drop of a hat the tears pour down my face , I call out to her and reach out to her and she’s simply not there, I want nothing more than for her to walk in the room and jump kn the sofa and two days ago o would have stepped out infront of a car so I can be with her and make sure she’s nog out there a wondering soul all alone. If I could jus see her so she can tell me she’s ok she made it to heaven, she was thee most beautiful dog and I would do anything to get her back .

I want to be superwoman and spin around the planet to turn back time and make sure she was ok. I’m not crazy I just love and miss her like there’s no tomorrow

Piltover
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Losing our pets Nov 9, 2021 11:31:51 GMT

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Post by Piltover on Nov 9, 2021 11:31:51 GMT

Hi there brummmie16, I'm so sorry for your loss. I also have a little dog and can only imagine how upset you must be. He's absolutely a part of my family and my best friend, and I think of him as my child, rather than just a pet. To have Pebbles not around any more must feel so unfamiliar and strange.

The grief we feel for our lost dogs should be treated with the utmost respect and you should give yourself the time to grieve her loss, and also talk about her like you're doing here. It sounds like she was an adorable dog and you had a wonderful bond.

Make sure that you're talking to people about how you feel, and if you want to commemorate Pebbles however you see fit, then do it.

Love and solidarity,
Justin

brummie16
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Losing our pets Nov 9, 2021 14:53:45 GMT via mobile

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Post by brummie16 on Nov 9, 2021 14:53:45 GMT

Thankyou Justin. I cry daily but now I do so in private as I don’t want to be a bother to people. My pebbles is and was a beautiful girl lived by so many. It’s vital to get a female dog spayed as infection sets in and the symptoms arrive and show themselves when it’s too late.

I miss her so much and I if I could spend 5 more minutes with my dog for all the money I have then I would give , even the clothes from my back and the food in my cupboards. It’s unconditional love .

The key is to get them regular health checks as we would ourselves, they can’t tell us when something is wrong but a vet for sure could identify a health issue quickly and the quicker the better.

We tend to only go to the vet with them if they are poorly but just a check up every few months I believe is vital and has I have done that then I would have had her by my side today. I don’t feel guilty or anything like that if anything it’s made me more conscious and I pass what I now know onto others in the hope it helps to save someone’s beloved pet .

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