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Post by debbiedowner99 on Mar 27, 2019 15:36:19 GMT
I think there's options out there to remain anonymous. Maybe OutLife can help point you in the right direction?
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Post by Piltover on Mar 27, 2019 15:58:57 GMT
Hi Harry, Thanks for letting us know how you're getting on. Debbie is indeed right there are ways to get support whilst remaining totally anonymous and you don't have to see someone face to face. There's no rush and you can take your journey at whatever pace is right for you. If that means you just want to talk via the phone, or maybe get some e-counselling, then maybe that would be a great place to start? So first off I'd echo my colleague above in saying that Switchboard is a great place to call: 0300 330 0630. You can be completely anonymous and say whatever you're feeling to someone down the phone. As also mentioned above, they also run a web chat service if the idea of a phone call makes you nervous. If your nearest city is Manchester then I'd recommend talking to both The Proud Trust and LGBT Foundation, which are LGBTQ+ orgs that work in and around the Manchester area. There are definitely groups they run on the periphery of the city which might be easier for you to get to. They also might know of support you can receive locally, or anonymously, or both. Best to contact them as they're the experts: www.theproudtrust.org/lgbt.foundation/ - you can email them here: info@lgbt.foundation What do you think harry? |
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Post by harryh on Mar 28, 2019 16:28:19 GMT
I think I'll give LGBT Foundation a go. I'm not ready yet but when I am I will reach out to them. Thanks!
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Post by debbiedowner99 on Apr 8, 2019 19:18:30 GMT
Hi Harry. How are you? Was just thinking about you today. I had two skype conversations with a professional and it was wonderful. It might be something to look into.
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Post by Rasher on Apr 14, 2019 22:24:58 GMT
Hi Harry. Any update for us? Have you reached out to the LGBT Foundation?
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Post by michs on Apr 14, 2019 23:17:43 GMT
I hope you're feeling better about yourself, Harry. We all deserve to be happy with who we are.
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Post by harryh on May 19, 2019 1:51:11 GMT
Hi all. I'm so sorry I never updated you.
So life has changed quite a bit since I posted this thread. I want to thank you for putting me in contact with LGBT Foundation. They have been a life saver. I got in contact over the phone and they invited me to one of their weekend sessions. I was so nervous going to the first one but I was met with nothing but friendliness and support. I got talking to others in the group and it opened my eyes. I think that's all I needed was some human connections and to meet people who made me feel good about myself.
I'm now happy with who I am and I feel positive about my future. I have friends. Real friends who get me and love me for who I am. I'm crying writing this bacuase I feel so happy. Thank you OutLife. You were there for me when I was lost and you pinted me in the right direction.
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Post by harryh on May 19, 2019 1:52:02 GMT
I ashould also state I've had a few drinks in Canal Street tonight and got home feeling fantastic. Sorry for the drunkness. HA
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Post by harryh on May 19, 2019 1:53:32 GMT
Ohhh also. I'm now 18 and have moved to Manchester full time. I'm living with some LGBT people. They have changed my life too. I love them too.
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Post by Piltover on May 20, 2019 9:47:38 GMT
hi Harry, This is such great news. I'm absolutely thrilled that LGBT Foundation were able to help and you've made progress on your journey. Sometimes all it takes is knowing that there are others out there who are just like you. If you're ever in need again you know where we are. These forums are always here for you  All the best, Justin |
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