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Post by Piltover on Mar 7, 2022 14:16:21 GMT
Hey everyone, I saw this article and I thought it might make a good springboard to talk about alcohol and our community. It uses the experience of Jujubee and Baga Chipz (two Drag Race queens) to launch into a wider conversation about drinking and being LGBTQ+. Below is a little excerpt from the director of an LGBTQ+ community centre: "We need community, support and connections more than ever post-Covid and whilst bars and clubs have always been integral to queer experiences, many of us can't access those spaces," she says. "People managing social anxieties, addictions and trauma, for example, need calmer alternatives. Hedonism isn't for everybody."
Megan, who has given up drugs, alcohol and smoking, adds: "Sober spaces provide a stable environment to connect, share experiences and make new friends where we remember it the next day.
"I've been on the 'queer scene' for 30 years and I still love dancing but… I've found that connecting with LGBTQI+ people in other ways has been healthier and contributed to my well-being and sustained recovery."
You can read the full article below: www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/4e02442d-193f-4b44-bf4b-fe86f826634bSo what do you think? Do you find yourself drinking a lot on the scene? Or do you avoid bars and clubs and use meetup groups instead? J
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Laurette
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Post by Laurette on Mar 27, 2022 16:29:22 GMT
My partner and I are occasional alcohol consumers. I've been out for a year now, and my alcohol consumption hasn't changed a bit. How about smoking and the LGBTQ community? pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15456993/The reference is rather old, but I believe the information is current. It is interesting to note that smoking prevalence with lesbians, bi-sexuals, and gays is higher than with their hetero counterparts. This study concluded that lesbians' smoking rate, at 25.3%, was about 70% higher than that of heterosexual women, at 14.9%. Gay men had a smoking prevalence of 33.2%, which is 56% higher than that of heterosexual men, at 21.3%. What the study didn't address was the possible causal connections between smoking and being lesbian or gay. In my situation, I've been a smoker since I was 12, became curious at 42, and came out at 45. My partner has been a smoker since she was 15, and came out about the same time. Her sister was for all practical purposes born lesbian, and became a smoker also at 15.
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Post by ottine on Jul 31, 2024 21:50:42 GMT
I used to go out quite a bit but have found that meetup groups and sober events offer a more relaxed and supportive environment. For those who want to avoid the party scene, alternatives like sober gatherings can be really fulfilling. If you’re looking to reduce alcohol consumption, you might consider other options like vaping. For me, vaping NEXA N20000 is more helpful than alcohol.
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Post by Saathi on Aug 1, 2024 9:54:09 GMT
I tend to go out once every 6 weeks but alcohol is everywhere and yes one drink leads to another but recently I made sure I had a soft drink in between drinks! Would be good to see more sober spaces and meetups. Also, the more I drink alcohol the more I am tempted to smoke - some of the best conversations are in the beer gardens! More sober beer gardens!
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Post by aulukd on Aug 21, 2024 17:00:38 GMT
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