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Post by tammy on Apr 21, 2022 17:42:08 GMT
I feel bad. I been in the closet trying to live normal. I could use someone to talk to. Would like to meet a friend soneone to hangout with talk to and maybe try painting each others faces. I feel i dont know what to do. I work. But dont know how to date. Havent from this perspective. And advice or ideals. Maybe a good dating app or a friend to help teach stuff.
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Post by Piltover on Apr 25, 2022 10:20:05 GMT
Hi there Tammy, Thanks for your post and welcome to the forums. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling bad. Living in the closet can be really hard on people's mental health, and it's common for people to feel overwhelmed by dating and other interacting with other LGBTQ+ people when they first start trying to live more authentically. I remember when I first came out that I didn't how to date, and sometimes it was hard to even be around other queer people! But after some time passed I managed to feel more comfortable with myself and in my relationship with other queer people. I think if you're looking to spend some time around other LGBTQ+ people then community groups and meetups can be an amazing way to start. You don't mention where you are but there are societies, clubs, support groups and more happening across the UK. Maybe you could find one in your local area and try it out? It could be an activity you're interested in, I always find that makes things easier for me when I'm meeting new people. It also sounds like your mental health is experiencing a rough patch. If you need to talk to someone then we'd definitely recommend calling one of the helplines below: Switchboard: a fantastic support line open from 10am to 10pm on 0300 330 0630. There is also a Web chat if this feels more accessible. switchboard.lgbt/LGBT Foundation is also available to talk about whatever you need from Monday-Friday 10am to 6pm on 0345 330 3030 lgbt.foundation/Justin |
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