Post by pavm on Apr 28, 2022 12:08:21 GMT
3 days ago and after a 5 years relationship with my gf, 4 years of living together (after moving to this country), after 1 dog and 3 cats and many many things together and trips..she told me she's not in love with me. The main reason is (and I admit it was my fault), I've put a lot of pressure on her with my jealousy and control although she never gave me a reason..the last 1 and half years she was feeling that she was falling out of love. She told me that another reason is the sex..because I don't have any experience apart from her. And also she wants to explore herself. Although she told me that when she's thinking and dreaming about her future/marriage/kids she can see only me.
Another issue is that we still live together with our animals ofcourse because first off all os difficult even for her to live on her own without me after so long but it's also the money and all the things we have together. But this situation for me is so so difficult to see her and not be able to kiss her..I am crying all day and I feel so lonely. Because I am a quiet person, no confidence no strong character. How can I go out there meet new people? Get new experience in all ways? And ofcourse be able to get over her..although I don't know if I want to because I will always hope that we will get back together and grow old together.
Another issue is that we still live together with our animals ofcourse because first off all os difficult even for her to live on her own without me after so long but it's also the money and all the things we have together. But this situation for me is so so difficult to see her and not be able to kiss her..I am crying all day and I feel so lonely. Because I am a quiet person, no confidence no strong character. How can I go out there meet new people? Get new experience in all ways? And ofcourse be able to get over her..although I don't know if I want to because I will always hope that we will get back together and grow old together.
