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Post by minato on May 5, 2022 15:08:57 GMT
Hi I need your advice, it is hard to explain... I just need some reassurance that I am not some kind of weirdo... I used to always identify as a homosexual male and I indeed had several boyfriends in my life, but lately I feel like I am Bi. Yes, bisexual! My sexuality is changing I cannot resist it anymore. I am not sure what exactly affected this but it took me a while to come to this realization so to speak. A while ago I fell in love with a woman and we started relationship and we are so happy right now. It seems like my life is divided into two parts: what was before her and what is now when I am her. I am by no means hiding my sexuality from her. I feel like I am filled with happiness. Can a gay man ever switch to Bisexual?? Does anyone here have similar experiences?...
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Post by Sunflower on May 9, 2022 9:53:37 GMT
Hello there, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your story. Firstly, it's okay that how you feel is changing. It is absolutely the case that anyone can switch labels or change the way they identify when it comes to sexuality. Your capacity for attraction is not set in stone, so it is completely normal that these feelings might shift. Sexuality is often very fluid, even though labels can indeed help us to understand our feelings, it is natural that some labels that used to fit no longer suit us as we continue on the journey of self-discovery. It is incredible that you are no longer resisting this change in your sexuality and embracing how you feel. I hope you are proud of yourself! It is so important that you listen to those emotions and give yourself the chance to explore. It is so wonderful to hear that you feel like you are filled with happiness and that you can be open with your partner about your sexuality. That is what we mean when we say 'love is love', regardless of who you are with and what gender they are, if you are happy and love each other then that is all that matters. If you want to talk to someone more about these feelings, then there are some amazing support lines: Switchboard LGBT has a fantastic support line open from 10am to 10pm on 0300 330 0630. There is also a Web chat if this feels more accessible. LGBT Foundation is also available to talk about whatever you need from Monday-Friday 10am to 6pm on 0345 330 3030 With kindness, Sunflower |
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