Post by coda on Sept 6, 2022 15:55:54 GMT
hey group
up until recently I was staunch in the fact that I was only attracted to women, but I've been feeling more and more attracted to some men I meet than I've ever felt before. I'm non binary so gender to me is not a defining line but I find myself more and more attracted to my male housemate who is also one of my best friends.
the hardest part of this is that I've been in a loving relationship with my fiance for almost 8 years. and I love her. I don't not love her and I'm not not attracted to her. If I could have it my way I would date both if them. I think I'm polyamorous and pansexual but I'm 27 and have been out as a lesbian for almost 10 years and I'm very much struggling with coming to terms with this identity change. let alone being polyamorous when my fiance is strictly monogamous.
my fiance is incredibly supportive of me but when I've mentioned polyamory in the past she hasn't been super positive about it, having been cheated on many times she finds it hard to tell the difference.
does anyone have any advice for broaching this topic with a loved one? or re coming out later in queer life?
up until recently I was staunch in the fact that I was only attracted to women, but I've been feeling more and more attracted to some men I meet than I've ever felt before. I'm non binary so gender to me is not a defining line but I find myself more and more attracted to my male housemate who is also one of my best friends.
the hardest part of this is that I've been in a loving relationship with my fiance for almost 8 years. and I love her. I don't not love her and I'm not not attracted to her. If I could have it my way I would date both if them. I think I'm polyamorous and pansexual but I'm 27 and have been out as a lesbian for almost 10 years and I'm very much struggling with coming to terms with this identity change. let alone being polyamorous when my fiance is strictly monogamous.
my fiance is incredibly supportive of me but when I've mentioned polyamory in the past she hasn't been super positive about it, having been cheated on many times she finds it hard to tell the difference.
does anyone have any advice for broaching this topic with a loved one? or re coming out later in queer life?
