Better late than never!

I’m a 60 (!) year old gay man.  I finally came fully out about a year ago.  I was married for almost 5 years in my mid-30s, and ironically it was my ex-wife who first said “Y’know, I think you might be gay…”.  I discounted the idea, and sort of thought maybe I was bi, but really didn’t do anything about it.  I honestly don’t recall being really attracted to men when I was younger, and it was only in my late 30s that I started noticing it.  Eventually I had some gay experiences, but I never fully accepted that I *was* gay until recently. I’m perfectly happy with all of that, although I wish I had realized it fully a long time ago - I could have been having all this fun back then!

I’m traveling in Europe right now, and using Grindr for the first time, and having a BLAST!  How could I have missed all this fun for so many years?  Went to a men’s bath house in Lisbon - WOW!  Talk about your eye-openers!  There are so many men out there, and it’s such a refreshing change to have men initiating contact with me and calling *me* sexy (something I never remotely considered myself to be).  

I don’t have a lot of experience with anal sex, but I really want to learn - it just has to be with the right person.  I’ve swallowed a load for the first time very recently, and it was far more enjoyable than I ever imagined.  I was afraid I’d gag on it, but in the heat of the moment, well, woof!

If anyone reading this is afraid to admit to themselves that they’re gay, or afraid to come out, don’t be!  Open yourself up to the opportunities that are out there!  I hope I find Mr. Right sometime soon.  Sure are lots of hotties to play with in Portugal!