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Post by daniel30 on Mar 2, 2023 14:59:07 GMT
Hi,
I'm a 30 year old male and finding it very d ifficult to accept my sexualitu being gay. I have been with woman my whole life but now I only get aroused to gay men. I only really get aroused t9 gay porn that's when my gay urges started occurring. I don't want to have a relationship I just get strong urges to have gay sex. I'm trying to build a new life but I dont want to be gay and find it very difficult to function being this way. I have become very socially isolated and I just want to go somewhere new.
Amy help on the matter would be greatly appreciated?
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Post by Saathi on Mar 2, 2023 18:24:28 GMT
Dear Daniel thank you for your post. Sounds like you are going through a tough time in regards to accepting your sexuality. Coming to terms with our sexuality can be a challenging time but managing these feelings do get better or more reflective the more knowledge you experience. Taking one day at a time and realising you have the right to have a healthy mental health and wellbeing is important to our self-care. When you say you want to go somewhere new how do you mean? Is there any plans you are making? this link might help >> www.lgbthero.org.uk/pages/category/self-careSorry to hear you feel very isolated, this must be tough. There is a link below to our online social and support groups which may help. They are welcoming and supportive and friendly, and if you only want to listen in, then this can be another way to connect with others? For myself religion, culture and faith played a big part in me first accepting who I was before I reached out to others (for me it was the GP, then counsellor). The breakthrough moment for myself was to start talking about how I was feeling with other specialists / people and social & support groups in a private and confidential and non-judgemental places. To be able to talk about how I was feeling and to be listened to really helped. So thanks for reaching out - I hope the forums help. Talking about how we feel and feeling safe about this can help. I'm not sure where you in the world but I am hoping the below info may help. Stay in touch and let us know you get on. www.lgbthero.org.uk/find-supportSwitchboard - 0300 330 0630, 10am-10pm LGBTQ+ helpline run by volunteers. Here to help you with whatever you want to talk about. Nothing is off limits. www.lgbthero.org.uk/fs182-5-reasons-to-give-online-support-groups-a-gowww.lgbthero.org.uk/Pages/Events/Category/upcoming-hangouts
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Post by krankieyorky on Mar 17, 2023 8:04:18 GMT
i kknow the feeling brother i am marriedd not in a happy marriage cant leave as i have my grandson at home heree with me and i have same feelings as you
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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2023 17:03:09 GMT
maybe you guys both doesn't feel a woman can care about you
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