Hate myself for liking it

malone
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Hate myself for liking it Jun 24, 2023 22:51:48 GMT via mobile

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Post by malone on Jun 24, 2023 22:51:48 GMT

Hi all

So I'm 32, male and for most of my life I thought I was just straight.

Couple years ago I got curious, joined a few sites and got alot of attention. However never had the courage or nerve to meet anyone. But a few nights ago I finally met a guy, he was nice and wasn't pushy at all. We did some things and now I feel this deep deep hatred for myself for liking it.

Anyone have any advice on what the hell I can do to not feel like this?

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Hate myself for liking it Jul 5, 2023 16:00:45 GMT

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Post by avocado on Jul 5, 2023 16:00:45 GMT

Hi

I am so sorry you feel like this. I hope your are feeling better since you wrote it. Internalised homophobia takes all we have heard about why it is bad to be gay over the years, it builds up and effects us in ways we might not have realised. If you want to talk this through with someone I recommend switchboard.lgbt who you can phone or DM, also check out mindout.org.uk

Hope this helps

Avo

skylerpenny1 Newbie Posts: 10	Hate myself for liking it Jul 17, 2023 19:03:13 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by skylerpenny1 on Jul 17, 2023 19:03:13 GMT Don't hate yourself. Understand it and comes to grips with it. Learn to like yourself and then you can like others...

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