Post by captainm on Jul 4, 2023 0:11:55 GMT
Hi,
I hope I can be honest here and get a proper reply from members:
I am a hetero guy who are very happily married with the worlds most wonderful woman for many years. We have been active in the swingers community but we are not really swinging; we have sex where we touch, lick and kiss the couples or women or men we have met.
So I have been trying to find out our gender which is not so easy, anywhere. If one look at genders nothing fits. If one looks at porn video search criteria nothing really fits apart from “lucky times” when the right video pops up., so here goes:
- we are not hetero, because we like to to touch, lick and kiss same sex.
- we are not bisexual because we are not generally attracted to same sex people, only in certain settings with the right people
- I do not like anal sex between men.
- I love to suck, take loads and be very active with tongue and fingers as long as it is not anal, and with my wife.
- I never look twice on a man, never feel attracted apart from when we engage in fun.
-I am definitely not a cuckold - on the contrary, and my wife is towards sub.
So If one wants to identify with people like oneself there is an issue.
-not pansexual
-not heterosexual
-not bisexual
-not omnisexual
-not heteroflexible because that designation does not exclude anal
If I want to describe me I would say heterohappyflexiblelight
But there is no gender for that. According to research a large percentage of both women and men are like myself and the wife where we enjoy sensual atmosphere where borders of traditional sexuality are blurred out and we just engulf ourselves in the moment and are really happy with that. But no flag, no symbol or no community. I find it strange that we cannot find more online or real resources for how we are, or are we freaks?
Would love to hear what others think about this.
I hope I can be honest here and get a proper reply from members:
I am a hetero guy who are very happily married with the worlds most wonderful woman for many years. We have been active in the swingers community but we are not really swinging; we have sex where we touch, lick and kiss the couples or women or men we have met.
So I have been trying to find out our gender which is not so easy, anywhere. If one look at genders nothing fits. If one looks at porn video search criteria nothing really fits apart from “lucky times” when the right video pops up., so here goes:
- we are not hetero, because we like to to touch, lick and kiss same sex.
- we are not bisexual because we are not generally attracted to same sex people, only in certain settings with the right people
- I do not like anal sex between men.
- I love to suck, take loads and be very active with tongue and fingers as long as it is not anal, and with my wife.
- I never look twice on a man, never feel attracted apart from when we engage in fun.
-I am definitely not a cuckold - on the contrary, and my wife is towards sub.
So If one wants to identify with people like oneself there is an issue.
-not pansexual
-not heterosexual
-not bisexual
-not omnisexual
-not heteroflexible because that designation does not exclude anal
If I want to describe me I would say heterohappyflexiblelight
But there is no gender for that. According to research a large percentage of both women and men are like myself and the wife where we enjoy sensual atmosphere where borders of traditional sexuality are blurred out and we just engulf ourselves in the moment and are really happy with that. But no flag, no symbol or no community. I find it strange that we cannot find more online or real resources for how we are, or are we freaks?
Would love to hear what others think about this.
