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Post by clownj on Dec 9, 2023 8:18:50 GMT
So I had a few sexual encounters with men recently one involved giving head while the other I received and even had sex with, I wasn't into any of these things like I thought I would've been and I can't explain why I wasn't into it.
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Post by Saathi on Dec 10, 2023 11:01:56 GMT
Hi there, thanks for your post. Look like you are discovering who you are through your lived experiences - which for all us at times can be confusing regarding our sexuality, emotional connection and intimacy. Personally, when I was discovering my own sexuality I found I needed more emotional connection and felt disconnected to the sex I had. I slowly experimented with intimacy and sex, and did what I felt comfortable to do so. I always make sure everything I do is with consent and safety and that I really want to do "it". Sometimes we do not have to find any reason why we may not be into "it", as this could be a number of factors, the time, the space, the moment, the person and more importantly on how we are feeling emotionally and how this connects to our sexual desire or not. I guess being on the forums is a start, or being able to discuss this in another space (by this I mean telephone support, 121 support etc) where you do not feel judged and everything you share is private and confidential. There are some links below that may help you. Stay in touch and I hope things develop in way that make more sense to you. www.lgbthero.org.uk/pages/category/sexualitywww.lgbthero.org.uk/find-supportwww.lgbthero.org.uk/Pages/Category/helplgbtq |
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